To become an alpha male you will need to adopt the characteristics and personality traits that all alpha males have in common. You must realise that this will not happen overnight, as habits that you have built up over a lifetime will not fall away so quickly. However, just have faith that if you stick at it you can learn how to be an alpha male.
An alpha male never goes waffling on in an unfocused manner. You will find all alpha males speak in a very deliberate fashion and limit their words. They use as little conversation that is needed to deliver their point.
Alpha males also tend to only speak about the positive. If something negative happens to an alpha male he will not focus on it, but rather look at ways that he can improve the situation. You will never hear an alpha male complaining about a lack of finances or that he is not sure how he will pay the rent. He would much rather look for solutions and continue to enjoy himself. Women find this very attractive, as it appeals to their natural feminine instinct to find a male who can provide.